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How To Tips: The best way to get a close shave

2011-10-14T20:06:00.002-06:00

We've mentioned "Manscaping" and there are plenty of women already grooming their nether regions, so it's time to discuss the best way to get a close shave.

This will go for both men and women. Also, I am a fairly hairy person naturally. I have struggled with this personally for my entire life. So, this will work for you even if you have very thick hair!

First it is very important that you have all the tools you will need:

Comfortably Hot water, either tub or shower will work

Scissors or Trimmers.

A "Mach 3" men's razor with new blades

Good Quality Shave Cream. I prefer THIS

or THIS

It also comes in Unscented, for Men HERE

Healing Balm or Oil. I prefer THIS

This also comes in a Gift Kit HERE

This foot rest, for the shower, is also helpful. HERE

Ok, lets get started. First of all, your skin will be sensitive for the first 3-4 times you shave. Bear with it, it gets better. Also, if you avoid shaving the inner sides of your labia, you will have less itching later. Leave a small, trimmed "landing strip" down the center for the most comfort.

To begin, use scissors or a trimmer to cut the hair as short as possible. Less than 1/4 inch.
Next, make sure to submerge your genital area in the comfortably hot water for several minutes. This will soften the skin, relax the muscles and open your pores.
After a few minutes, remove genital area from the water and using your hand, remove and wipe away excess water.
Dispense appx. a dime sized amount of shave cream in your palm.
Massage the cream onto the areas you wish to shave. The cream will not lather, it will be similar to conditioner.
Allow it to sit on the hair for a minute and penetrate into the follicle and skin.
Take the razor and shave in the direction the hair grows.
BE SURE to rinse the razor every 2 inches. Keep shaving and rinsing until the entire area has been shaved.
Now, massage the shave cream around on the skin again (use leftover on skin, or another dime size amount). This time, pull the skin tight and stretch it out and slowly and firmly shave against the hair growth.
Feel your skin for rough hair patches and shave them. Again, rinse the razor every 2-3 inches.
Massage any cream remaining cream on your skin, into the areas you've just shaved.
Rinse your body.
Towel dry gently
Use a drop or 2 of Miracle healing oil on the freshly shaved skin and massage in gently.
Avoid itching the area, and keep shaving every 3-4 days.
Be sure to ONLY use this razor blade for your genitals and change the blades every 10-15 uses.

In addition to this regime, in order to condition the skin I recommend THIS shower gel and THIS body lotion, which help eliminate keratin deposits (those bumps on the backs of your arms and legs) The scent I recommend is "Skinny Dip". It almost smells like candy, with a hint of vanilla and warm undertones. I also recommend Fresh Breasts/Fresh Balls HERE and HERE, daily, to help keep the area comfortable and dry and avoid sweating.

Attn: Cam Models!!

2011-06-18T16:29:00.002-06:00

Are you a Web Cam Model?
Want FREE Sexy Toys and Lingerie?
Cherie's Closet wants to work with you!

We have 2 ways for you to receive FREE sexy goodies!

1. Promote our site and products

2. Create a wishlist for your fans

The first way is to promote our site, and it's as easy as 1-2-3!

Step 1: Create a login at http://www.cheriescloset.com and place items in your wishlist. Be sure to choose the exact size/color you prefer. There is no limit to the number of items you can place in your wishlist.

Step 2: Email us at customerservice@cheriescloset.com, that you would like to be assigned to the webcam model group. Include your model screen name and a link to your cam, where you perform.

Step 3: Pending approval, you will receive a toy or lingerie from your wishlist. Email us the time and date that you will be showing it off on your webcam. Be sure to be as descriptive as possible when demonstrating the item, and mention where you got it several times. You should also give a clickable link (include full http:// web address) in the chat box. In your profile/About Me page, include a link to a page on our site as well. If we get a good response and traffic increase, we will keep sending you items from your wishlist.

The second way, is to create a wishlist, just follow the instructions below.

* Email us with your name, birthdate, shipping address and preferred username/screen name. If you already have a PO Box or anonymous address, let us know and we will use that address on your account. If your address is one you wish to keep private, let us know and we'll keep it hidden.

* Place items in your wishlist. Be sure to choose the exact size/color you prefer. There is no limit to the number of items you can place in your wishlist.

* We will email you with your account username and password, for you to tell your viewers and fans.

* In your profile/About Me page, post the following text (or similar): I love getting gifts from fans! If you want to show your appreciation, or purchase a toy/outfit for our online sessions, you may find my wishlist at http://www.cheriescloset.com. Login using this username:_______ and password:_______ (fill in the blank with the info we emailed you) then click on the "Wishlist" button at the top of the page. Add the items to your cart that you wish to buy me. Checkout, and they will be sent to me automatically. Thanks!

* Now that your profile page has this info for your fans, you can start telling them all about the sexy goodies you want from our site. And you can reward your fans with private shows using the items they've purchased just for you! Let them know you'll consider "taking requests". And they can choose the toy or lingerie they want to see you wear/use.

Cherie's Closet named as AVN Top 50 retailer

2011-06-17T12:04:00.000-06:00

Wow, what an achievement! Our customers have always been loyal and appreciated what we do for them, but now we have been nominated, AND chosen for this incredible award!!!!

Here is what AVN has to say about us:

Sex sells. That’s been a maxim for marketers as long as there’s been advertising (or even longer—remember Eve selling Adam on that forbidden fruit?).

But as any sex toy manufacturer can tell you, sex doesn’t necessarily sell itself. Especially during hard times, consumers need to be seduced into spending money on their own pleasure. And that’s where the retailer comes in.

Brick-and-mortar shopkeepers and online retailers alike are the lifeblood of the adult industry. Challenged by shaky consumer confidence and tight credit, adult retailers have struggled to adapt, reinvent and survive. Some of them have won the battle quite handily.
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Now, AVN Media Network would like to celebrate those victors. To that end—with the assistance of major adult novelty distributors and other industry leaders—AVN is recognizing the best in a listing of the Top 50 Adult Novelty Retailers. Selected for achievements in customer service, merchandising skill, business savvy and sheer ability to survive and thrive, the winners will be announced in the magazine’s July issue.

“The retailers have always been an integral part of the adult novelty business,” said AVN senior editor Sherri L. Shaulis. “They have their fingers on the pulse of what consumers want, and they shape this industry by letting distributors and manufacturers know what sells and what doesn’t. For years AVN has provided retailers with information on how to run their businesses better, what products are available and who the up-and-coming manufacturers are, we decided it was high time to honor those who have used that knowledge and become the cream of the crop.”

Top retailers will be selected in the following categories: Online Only Retailer; Single Store; Small Chain (two to four stores); Medium Chain (five to eight stores); and Large Chain (nine or more stores).

Jelly Lace Bikini

2011-06-15T18:00:00.000-06:00

The hottest bikini for the past 2 years is now available in D and DD cup!

Give up on orgasming??

2011-04-21T18:11:00.006-06:00

I just read this advice given at this article to a woman who is 55 and believes she has never climaxed.

55-years-old-and-ive-never-climaxed

I need to say, I totally disagree with her advice here! I think telling her to just forget about having an orgasm is terrible!!! I can't even imagine how depressing it would be to hear this!

*Hey "55 yrs old"*----- This sounds like you simply aren't relaxing enough to climax. The climax neuro-pathways have to be learned by the brain and body. I suggest having a strong massager-vibrator with a broad tip used on your clit while you're half-asleep or extremely tired. You may consider taking a sleep aid early in the evening and about an hour after falling asleep have him try the massager. Keep in mind that the first few orgasms may not feel like orgasm, or even feel "good". What you should anticipate feeling is restless, perhaps even the bottom of your feet/palms burning. After there's a burning and some twitching/clenching of your muscles. Then next time, concentrate on the building feelings of anticipation and prolong them as much as you can. When you finally do give in, you should feel a sort of satisfying release along with the muscle spasms. Eventually your nerves will be able to anticipate what stimulation does to them. And the neuro-pathways will be strengthened. Then, the subsequent stimulations will produce the orgasm and the same feelings.

In the case of no orgasm, giving up is never an option!!! There just needs to be a better technique used. You might just have a "picky clit".

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Vibrating Oro Stimulator Review

2011-03-16T01:00:00.000-06:00

A premier Toy Review Site just reviewed one of our most popular items. Here's what they had to say about us:

www.CheriesCloset.com, Item #SE1006-00, $20

There is nothing better than great oral sex. The problem is that there are not always partners around when you need it most. California Exotic Novelties has a product that has been satisfying men for more than 5 years. It is a pliable latex sleeve designed to fit most sized penises and uses the principals of Swedish massage to bring you first to an erection, and then to a climax. This is all done by the use of stroking actions combined with the benefits of user controllable vibration.

This male masturbator is available from www.CheriesCloset.com and is ready to go whenever you want a blow job. The Vibrating Oro Simulator does the job, and is easy to use. Because of the pliable latex lips on the vibrating stroker tube, you get good contact and suction with every stroke. You do need to use a reliable long-lasting lubricant such as Wet Original. It is a water based lube that is supplied. It will not harm the latex of the device.

Simply insert two fresh AA batteries, lube up, slip your dick inside, and flip on the remote control switch to the intensity that feels best. It may not make all your adult fantasies come true, but it certainly will make you erect and build your excitement to a climax you can manage and repeat at will.

Nothing I have tried can duplicate the ultimate pleasure of oral sex, but this baby is a start. The Oro is a vibrating sensation that will massage and stimulate you with simulation of oral pleasure. The stroker portion is 5 1/2 inches in length with an additional inch of tightly fitted latex lips that grab and hold your penis to make it feel like it is being sucked dry.

Steak and Blow Job Day or How To Cook a Steak 101

2011-03-10T11:05:00.000-07:00

In case you haven't heard, it's nearly Steak and Blow Job Day! Men spend ♥ Valentines Day ♥ acting totally out of character, turning themselves into their partner's fantasy. One month later on March 14th, it's time to repay the favor!

We've previously covered How To give a Blow Job 101. Here's How To Cook a Steak 101.
the day before or in the morning 8-24 hours before you want to cook the steak, you need to prepare it. Unwrap the meat and beat it into submission with a spiked mallet. You really want to work it over good for it to be tender and have the juices erupt in your mouth later.

Next, grab some of this magic dust created by the Spade L Ranch and sprinkle evenly all over the meat. Be sure to get all sides moderately covered. Firmly massage the coated meat until the seasoning is worked fully into the meat.

Now that the meat has been beaten, and massaged, cover and let rest until you're ready to cook it. Once you're ready to get the meat hot and juicy, turn on the grill to high. As soon as the grill is smoking hot, lay the meat on the grill and turn down the heat to medium. Let cook for 10 minutes then flip and let cook for 7 minutes. Do not press down or the juices will escape early! As soon as the time is up, remove the meat from the heat, place on a plate and cover with foil. Let it rest for 2-5 minutes before serving. (Consider serving pineapple juice with it)

The SO CURVE SO SWIM Fashion Show.mov

2011-02-15T19:36:00.003-07:00

I highly recommend seeing the Crazy Horse Paris Show at the MGM if you're in Vegas.
I'll be at this amazing fashion show, by these dancers/choreographers, in a matter of minutes...

Fashion Week Las Vegas

2011-02-15T18:56:00.002-07:00

Just checking in from Fashion Week in Las Vegas! We've seen some awesome new styles I can't wait to tell you about. The next big thing to watch for at Cherie's Closet is the new Chica Rica Jelly Swimwear Lace Trimmed Bikini styles and also Men's Underwear from Intymen and Goodevil.(*The Goodevil Underwear model is Levi Poulter)

Kama Sutra

2011-02-12T17:27:00.002-07:00

Vida sashays into L.A. Fashion Week 2010.

2011-02-12T17:22:00.002-07:00

There's nothing like a few Luxury Sex Toys to make it a real party!

Vida sashays into L.A. Fashion Week 2010.

How To Do BDSM 101

2011-02-12T14:36:00.003-07:00

Ok, so you're tired of a vanilla sex life and want to dip your toes into the world of kink? Or maybe you've been harboring a secret BDSM fantasy? We can help you get started!

BDSM commonly is understood to stand for Bondage, Domination/Discipline, Sadism/Submission, Masochism. It is the act of controlling or giving up control during sex. And introducing extreme sensations during sex. It doesn't need to involve pain and degradation although it can, and it can also be made appear that way.

The first thing to consider is what you and your partner are currently comfortable with. Is there any sensation you hate? I hate being tickled, so for me, anything that tickles is absolutely unacceptable. I also despise the cold. So any of that is off the table as well. Once you have an idea of your sensation likes and dislikes you can begin to incorporate Sensation Play (BDSM) into your lovemaking.

Taking away the sense of sight heightens the other 4 senses. A good quality blindfold is a very good idea. The anticipation of what is about to happen is a key element in arousal. Be sure to avoid the sensations your lover dislikes. Trust is paramount when you decide to relinquish control. A safe word helps establish trust. Choose a word or phrase not commonly used in sex. You wouldn't want to be in the throes of passion, playing a reluctant lover, and have your partner stop the sensation and ruin the moment. You also don't want the safe-word to ruin the mood. So something generic like "Cookies", "Carrots", "Potato" work well. You can also use a stronger word like "Seriously" when telling your partner it's too much, as in "Stop, Seriously".

Once you're comfortable being blindfolded during regular sex-play, you can add the sensations. Some common sensations can be created using paddles, floggers, whips, crops, wheels, mitts, gloves, ticklers, restraints, suction, clamps, positioning, electricity.

The following is a brief breakdown of the types of toys used in BDSM play.

Paddles can be rubbed on the skin to soothe, or used to strike skin, resulting in a flush of blood to the surface of the skin. Stencil paddles should be laid against the skin and the exposed skin should be struck with the hand, to leave the desired mark.
Whips/Floggers can be used to strike the skin or be dragged across the surface of the skin. They range in materials from suede, to rubber, to fur/fluff. Some handles are made to be inserted vaginally/anally and may vibrate.
Crops are similar to paddles.
Wheels are rolled along the surface of the skin. Most are spiked and sensation varies with the pressure applied.
Mitts/Gloves can be metal-spiked or fur or rubber-spiked. When the skin is stroked and massaged it becomes sensitive or soothed. Rubber-spiked gloves feel very intriguing when used with lube or massage oil.
Ticklers can be made of many materials, and meant to be dragged across the skin lightly.
Restraints come in many styles. The most common is furry handcuffs. However, velcro, plain ropes, silk ties and even latex bondage tape are widely used. These Cuffs are meant for the shower. Also popular, is the Bondage Bar (video demo below)

Pumps/Suction can be applied on any skin surface. It causes blood to rush to the surface of the skin. Generally used on nipples or genital areas as they are most sensitive.
Clamps can also be applied most anywhere. The sensation is two-fold, once as the clamps are applied and then again as the blood rushes to the surface and then blood returns to the area. Some clamps are weighted, or jeweled and decorative.
Positioning Aids are used as a way to restrain and also a way to support different positions not generally able to be done.
Electricity is another way to bring blood to the surface. Some devices are meant to be inserted and some are meant to be applied to the skins surface.

The intensity of the sensation is an individual thing. Some people enjoy pure and gentle sensation, while others prefer the threat of pain, violence or degradation. Actual harming and humiliation of your lover is ABUSE, and it's unacceptable behavior, which is also criminal. You or your partner may enjoy the illusion of these things however, so having a safe word is vitally important if you truly care about your relationship and your partner. Above all communication is key. The point of sex is to increase intimacy and strengthen your relationship. Anything that results in the opposite should be avoided and deemed unacceptable.

Of course maybe you're just looking to learn to be a little more aggressive or want to look the part. This book is a great place to start. And here are some fun outfits to complete the BDSM session.

Leather Lace-Up Bustier

Belted Boots


Studded Skirt

I hope this helps clear up the uses and terminology commonly found in BDSM play. Feel free to comment on your experiences with starting BDSM!

How To Alter the Taste of Semen

2011-02-11T19:46:00.001-07:00

A tip that everyone SHOULD know (but many don't) is how to alter semen to be more pleasant tasting. You may have encountered semen that tastes bitter and "bleachy". This is due in part to the alkalinity in the body's secretions. Let's face it, what you put into your body will be recycled back out.

There are several ways to alter the taste of semen through diet changes. The very quickest, easiest and most basic is to simply drink PINEAPPLE JUICE. It can be canned or bottled, fresh or frozen. Within approximately 24 hrs, you'll notice a distinct taste change in the semen. It may become sweeter, but it may not. What will happen is the bleachy, alkaline taste will be neutralized by the acid from the pineapple juice.

So skip the wine and beer at dinner, and grab some of this amazing tropical nectar. Your significant other will appreciate it, and you'll reap the benefits ten-fold! And as always, keep drinking plenty of water. What's good for the semen is good for the whole body!

How To Give Oral - Male 101

2011-02-09T22:46:00.007-07:00

A question I am asked very frequently through the years, by customers as well as many of my friends, is "How do I give a Blow Job?"

Giving oral sex, whether on men or women, is not a "paint-by-numbers" task. There is no one sure way that is the best. For every different guy that is out there, there will be that many ways of giving a guy pleasure. I'll talk a little bit about a few different techniques. As well as give some tips that will add variety.

The only rule that is Absolute, is this:
PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR GUY'S RESPONSE TO YOUR TECHNIQUE.

As you're giving head (oral sex) listen for moans, feel his body tense and move. Pay attention to what you just did, repeat it and see if you get the same response, then memorize what you did, so you'll remember it next time. Oral sex is a little bit instinct and a little bit trial and error. Just because he liked it last time, doesn't always mean he's enjoying it this time. Guys have different moods too! Also, ask him during the blow job, if he wants it faster or slower, also ask if he'd like it harder or gentler.

And Guys, if you're reading this, PLEASE WASH THOROUGHLY AND SHAVE FIRST!! Being freshly cleaned isn't optional, especially if you'd like a repeat performance....

As is the case with most new sexual positions, techniques, a light and easy touch to start is a good idea. Gently grasp the shaft and stroke it a little. And remember to go slow and steady. Eventually you can increase speed and roughness as he may desire. Your mouth and touch should be gentle, but firm enough not to tickle him. Be aware also, that clear seminal fluid (not sperm) will leak out of the tip while you're giving oral sex. This is a big sign that he's very turned on and may be ready to cum.

First, lick your lips or apply chapstick (for your comfort) and gently slide the lick the head, then slide the head of his penis in your mouth. AVOID THE TEETH. Unless your guy expresses pleasure at a light nibble, he very likely doesn't enjoy sharp teeth on his cock. The head is the most sensitive part (like your clitoris). Imagine you're eating an ice-pop that's melting. Eventually, work your way down the shaft with a loose mouth and tighten your lips around it as you drag your tongue and mouth upwards along the shaft. Use the tip of your tongue to pay attention to the spot along the underside of his shaft right where it meets the head. This is one of the main nerves in the penis and source of incredible pleasure for most guys. Try to avoid too much saliva. The motion of your tongue caressing his penis is the main objective 90% of the time. Once in awhile you can "go deep" and try to fit as much of his cock into your mouth as you can. But it's difficult to breath while suppressing the gag reflex, so don't worry if that part doesn't last long.

Another technique is to place your mouth on his shaft like corn on the cob, or a harmonica. Then, using some tongue, slide your mouth along the shaft. Try rotating his shaft slightly as you slide up and down the length of him.

When you really want to intensify his pleasure make your tongue somewhat firm and use it to draw circles around his cock, where the head meets the shaft. At the same time, use your hand to make the head of his cock draw circles around your tongue, as if you're wrapping a ribbon around your tongue. Switch directions and use moderate suction. Suction will pull the blood into his penis and engorge him more. Too much suction is painful and will cause bruising in some cases, so be careful. A good rule to follow is use enough suction to keep your saliva in your mouth.

Now is a good time to discuss his balls. These are sometimes forgotten erotic zones. Handle gently and with care. During the Blow Job, cradle them in your palm while you pet and caress them. Gentle tugging may also feel good. Scraping your fingernails along the sac provides him yet another sensation to enjoy. Gently use your fingers to roll the balls around inside the sac. Be VERY gentle. If he enjoys it, he might want you to kiss and take a ball into your mouth, and gently use your tongue to caress them.

Use your hands to provide additional sensation on the shaft as well. Keep a firm hold of his shaft near the base of his penis, nearly the entire time. Once in awhile let your hands follow your mouth up and down the shaft stroking him while he is in your mouth. Sometimes even gently dragging your nails up his shaft. Also try gently stretching the skin of his penis tightly towards his body away from the head while your mouth and tongue are on the head. This sometimes increases the intensity of the sensation of your mouth.

Another spot to use your hands besides the shaft and balls, is the nifkin or perineum. The Perineum is the spot of skin between the ballsack and the anus. There's a very sensitive spot there that when pressed and massaged increases pleasure dramatically. It's actually his prostate being stimulated. The prostate is the "Male G-Spot". Massaging the perineum during oral sex usually delays and intensifies the orgasm. When you massage the perineum, be certain your hands are soft and smooth, and your fingernails are trimmed with no rough edges. Use firm undulating pressure, with your index finger and also using small circular motions. Slow and steady, like applying lotion, is best, avoid being fast and rough.

In addition to these basic styles of touch, you may also use humming to produce a vibrating sensation.

Remember, he should ALWAYS warn you when he's about to cum, and give you the option of receiving semen in your mouth. (see the article on altering the taste of semen). It's up to you whether to let him cum in your mouth or not. Once the semen is in your mouth, having a washcloth or towel nearby is a delicate way to spit it out if you prefer not to swallow. Some guys may actually feel bad about cumming in your mouth. These are all things you should probably find out ahead of time.

If the idea of giving your guy oral sex isn't enjoyable, here are a few things to make it more interesting.

Sweeten69 alters the taste of semen to make it more enjoyable. Can also be used by women to alter their secretion’s and fluid's taste
Edible Body Paint This is my personal favorite. It's made from real freeze dried food, and doesn't have any chemical aftertaste at all. The strawberry is especially delicious. Paint it on his cock, let it dry, then simply lick it all off. It tastes like jam!!
Mints These provide pleasant taste plus numbing for you, and a cool tingling sensation for him. Eat them before during and after Oral Sex. For a more intense sensation, you can use altoids or Riccola throat drops too!
Edible Body Dust If you prefer a milder flavor, body dust gives a hint of taste/smell and provides a different texture, close your eyes and using just taste and smell, try to remove all the dust from all over his groin with your mouth and tongue.

Along with the tricks and tips above, you may also include vibrating toys while giving head. A hands-free way to do this is with a vibrating cock ring. You can also use the basic bullet and play with it along his balls and on his perineum.

If you're still not confident of your skills, buy a Popsicle similar to the cherry-pineapple flavored "Big Stick" and practice!

♥ GUYS: If you have anything to add or modify we'd love to hear your comments!! Click "review", below, to add your comments, thoughts and ideas.

How To Use a Cock Ring 101

2011-02-09T18:31:00.004-07:00

This week we've received 2 emails and a phone call asking for a better explanation of cock rings. So I figured more of you likely want to know as well. I'll explain it from the male's benefit perspective first, then the female's. Then I'll discuss how to wear them.

The cock ring's design is to retain blood in the shaft of the penis. There are many different reasons for this. The most common ones are because it feels good, and to maintain an erection. It feels good because of the tightness and pressure. You're simply more sensitive when your engorged with blood. If you wear it around your shaft and balls at the same time, your orgasm will be larger and more intense. You also tend to last a little longer.

The other reason is the most common. By restricting the blood's ability to leave the penis, you get and maintain an erection easier and longer. Your shaft also increases in girth slightly. Most men have "off-nights" where you're distracted but not disinterested. Also, as they get older their erections become less reliable. A cock ring can be used with a pump in the event of serious impotence. Some guys simply prefer to stay hard and keep having sex until their partner is satisfied. A cock ring allows them to maintain the erection after their own climax until their body is ready for the second round.

As a female, there are two reasons I enjoy using a cock ring during sex. It causes rippled veins to emerge along the shaft, which feels really really nice, and also I can tell a difference in girth and firmness. A firmer cock might more accurately hit the G-spot and other sensitive areas inside the vagina. The other reason I like cock rings, is THEY CAN VIBRATE. Make no mistake guys, girls like vibration. And the vibrations are mutual! A female can grind on the vibrating bullet on the cock ring, or simply enjoy your shaft vibrating inside (although it isn't very strong on the shaft).

By wearing a vibrating cock ring, you just turned yourself into the best sex toy ever!

Now for the technical part....How to wear a cock ring.

There are many sizes and shapes of cock rings, made of many different materials. The most common is a simple jelly ring that stretches to 4 times it's original size LIKE THIS. Don't be afraid to experiment until you find one that works for you. Basic cock rings are relatively inexpensive. Smooth, nubby, rippled are all textures that may or may not matter. Depending on where you'll place the ring, you may want a larger size. You can wear the ring around the base of the shaft next to your body, or around the balls and shaft at the same time, again worn as close to the body as possible. (like a penis bouquet if you will) If you're really concerned about size and fit, try a LASSO. Rubber styles LIKE THIS will be more rigid and less stretchy. And there are METAL RINGS as well for a very rigid fit. These need to be put on while still flaccid.

This is a good time to mention "MANSCAPING". If you haven't gotten in the habit of shaving your penis and balls, now is a good time to start. Your partner will appreciate it and you'll have less hairs to catch in the "rubber band". Avoid lube at first. Lube will only make the cock ring slippery and harder to handle if you're new at wearing it. You can wear it over the condom, or under.

Ok, first start out with as much of an erection as possible. For some men, this is after a bit of foreplay or even the pump. Then take the cock ring in both hands and stretch it WIDE in a circle, to fit over your shaft (or shaft and balls as the case may be). You may have your partner help you if you're uncomfortable. Release SLOWLY and gently (I can't stress this enough) until it is resting firmly against your skin. Now grasp the shaft furthest from your body in one hand, and use the other to stretch and inch the ring down close to your body nice and snug. These are designed pretty durable, so if you're afraid of stretching it too much, then, before sex, play with how much stretch and give your cock ring has, so you'll get a feel for it's capacity. Once you're done having sex, slide a finger on each hand under each side of the cock ring and stretch it out away from your penis. Remove the ring from your shaft and wash the cock ring with Antibacterial Toy Cleaner.

Some cock rings come with small nubs to hold onto LIKE THIS, but they're not necessary, just convenient. If your cock ring has 2 small nubs next to each other, these straddle the main nerve that runs along the underside of your penis. Some cock rings come with a strand of nubs attached like a tail. These are for anal stimulation (either partner).

I hope this helped explain the use of a cock ring and you all understand it better than before. If anyone would like to add any comments regarding their experiences, please feel free.