I just read this advice given at this article to a woman who is 55 and believes she has never climaxed.
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I need to say, I totally disagree with her advice here! I think telling her to just forget about having an orgasm is terrible!!! I can't even imagine how depressing it would be to hear this!
*Hey "55 yrs old"*----- This sounds like you simply aren't relaxing enough to climax. The climax neuro-pathways have to be learned by the brain and body. I suggest having a strong massager-vibrator with a broad tip used on your clit while you're half-asleep or extremely tired. You may consider taking a sleep aid early in the evening and about an hour after falling asleep have him try the massager. Keep in mind that the first few orgasms may not feel like orgasm, or even feel "good". What you should anticipate feeling is restless, perhaps even the bottom of your feet/palms burning. After there's a burning and some twitching/clenching of your muscles. Then next time, concentrate on the building feelings of anticipation and prolong them as much as you can. When you finally do give in, you should feel a sort of satisfying release along with the muscle spasms. Eventually your nerves will be able to anticipate what stimulation does to them. And the neuro-pathways will be strengthened. Then, the subsequent stimulations will produce the orgasm and the same feelings.
In the case of no orgasm, giving up is never an option!!! There just needs to be a better technique used. You might just have a "picky clit".
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